Maintain Interpersonal Relationships And Be Unbeaten In The Workplace

< p > I find it very difficult.

Birds of a feather flock together. There is reason for it. If it's not for the same spirit, no effort will be made. Why bother to spend that spirit? I don't think you need to work so hard.

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< p > of course, if the relationship between the other party and you is < a href= "http:// www.sjfzxm.com/news/index_c.asp" > interest less than /a, you must maintain it.

Then reduce your expectation of emotional feedback, as if you have to do something, and you will not be hurt emotionally.

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< p > if you want to give the emotional burden of < a href= "http:// www.sjfzxm.com/news/index_c.asp" > modern people < /a >, what burden do you think the most should be unloaded? < /p >

< p > is the burden of perfection.

Too many young people are asking for perfection and asking for impossible things.

As long as you admit that life is not perfect, it is accompanied by compromise, setbacks and limits, and life will be much easier.

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< p > of course, you should go straight ahead, but you can't ask yourself to never make mistakes. You can't ask yourself to succeed once and make yourself soft.

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< p > if you really feel attentively and acutely in your life, you can accept the imperfections more easily and keep the pursuit of perfection.

Besides, I have always advocated that we should read more books and take a look at others' a href= "http:// www.sjfzxm.com/news/index_c.asp" > experience < /a > to listen to others' ideas, and we can correct ourselves.

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< p > many "single men" and "single women" are not celibate. Marriage problems have brought too much pressure to them. How can they solve problems besides getting married? < /p >

< p > when a person feels lonely, the main reason is that he feels unsafe. This is not a matter of going out for a blind date every day. After all, love is a matter of two people.

What can I do? I can only change myself.

Change what? Make yourself feel safe.

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< p >, therefore, the first point is to quickly accumulate something that makes you feel safe in the material aspects, such as house, insurance, etc., not only to help yourself, but also to reduce your parents' worries about your future.

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< p > second is not to be hard spoken, but to admit your loneliness.

When you feel lonely, you can tell your friends, "I need you to accompany me today because I feel very uncomfortable."

Friends will not ignore you. When you express your loneliness and unhappiness, you will find that the next interval of loneliness is longer.

The more depressed, the higher the frequency.

If you want to recognize and allow yourself to have this problem, you will gradually find that you can control it.

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< p > now, "condition" is becoming more and more valued in choosing a spouse. This seems to make the "emotional affairs" more loaded. How should we view this problem? < /p >